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The Connection Between Writing & Dance (Guest Post)
I’m interested in opening up this blog to contributions from friends and family, as well as strangers who might be interested in writing something on one of the themes explored in this blog. I’m particularly into the idea of hearing about other people’s experiences with reading and writing, or any other art form, and my…
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The Scene That Looked Romantic (But Felt Completely Dead)

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Why Romance Characters Always Notice Hands

There are certain details romance writers return to again and again without even realising it. Eyes, of course.Voices.The way someone laughs. But hands appear in romance fiction far more often than you’d expect. Once you start noticing it, you can’t stop. A character notices how someone holds a glass.How they drum their fingers on a…
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When Characters Lie (And Why Romance Needs That Moment)

One of the strangest things about writing romance is how often the most important moment in a story isn’t when someone confesses love. It’s when someone lies. Not the dramatic kind. Not the villain twirling a moustache kind. I mean the small lie that slips out because the truth feels too dangerous to say. “I’m…
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Why Romance Writers Should Try a Weekly World-Building Habit (And How to Start One)

Most romance writers don’t struggle with ideas.They struggle with continuity of feeling. You can write a gorgeous meet-cute on Monday and a sharp, aching argument on Thursday, then read it back a week later and wonder why the emotional thread feels thin. Not wrong. Just… faint. This is where a small, unglamorous habit helps more…
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When Romance Meets Genre: Blending Contemporary Love Stories with Mystery, Thriller or Speculative Fiction

At some point, most romance writers flirt with another genre. Not literally. Although sometimes literally too. More often, it happens quietly. You’re writing a contemporary love story and suddenly there’s a crime that won’t stay in the background. Or a strange premise. Or a ticking clock that feels bigger than a will-they-won’t-they moment. You realise…
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Dialogue as Desire: Writing Chemistry When Nothing Happens

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Subtext & Silence: Writing What Isn’t Said in Romance

I cut a breakup scene last week that used to run three pages. I left one line, a squeezed hand, and the sound of a chair not pushed fully back. The scene started breathing. The relationship felt older, more private, more inevitable. That’s the thing about subtext. It lets the reader do half the work…
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The Slow Burn — Why Patience in Romance Pays Off

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From Draft to Heartbreak: Writing the Tough Emotional Scenes

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When Setting Becomes Character: Writing Romance Rooted in Place

There’s a particular corner in Seville — just past where Calle Mateos Gago spills into the orange-tree square — where I once sat with a notebook, a paper cup of vermut, and the kind of stubborn heartbreak that wouldn’t quit politely. I wasn’t writing romance that day. I was writing a fight scene, actually —…
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Love and Identity: Crafting Characters Who Evolve Beyond Romance

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How My Love Life Survived a Spanish Heatwave

t started with a ceiling fan. Or rather, the lack of one. Because when the thermometer hit 41°C and my flat transformed into a human oven, romance was not the first thing on my mind. Survival was. I was sticky, grumpy, half-dressed, and trying to Google “how to chill a mattress using only despair.” And…
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The Architecture of Longing: How I Structure a Romantic Story

Writing romance isn’t about tossing two attractive people into a plot and waiting for sparks. If it were, every novel would end at chapter two with a shared sandwich and a mortgage application. No, romance needs a scaffold. A rhythm. A rising hum. Something that builds and cracks and bends but doesn’t break. I think…
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The Power of Language in Love Stories (And Why I’m Learning Spanish)

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Love on the Page: How I Write Romantic Chemistry That Feels Real

There are two kinds of romantic tension: the kind you write, and the kind that sneaks up behind you while you’re trying to act normal and suddenly you’re ten seconds from kissing someone in a Lidl car park. My job? Capture both. Without sounding like I’ve been possessed by a 2014 Buzzfeed headline or the…
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Romance in Spain: Why Setting Matters in a Love Story

It’s a truth universally acknowledged that two people falling in love on a grey industrial estate in Slough is a hard sell. Put them on a sun-drenched balcony in Cádiz, with cicadas chirping and a glass of something chilled between them? Now we’re getting somewhere. The thing is—setting matters. A lot. I used to think…
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Creating Characters That Feel Like Real People

I have a confession: I judge books by their characters. Not their covers, not their plot twists, not even their settings (though an atmospheric backdrop never hurts). If a character feels flat, robotic, or worse—like they exist purely to deliver witty one-liners and nothing else—I’m out. Because here’s the thing: romance isn’t about grand gestures…
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Taking Yourself on an Artist Date

In my last post, I talked about balancing a writing career with a day job. While the dream might be to live off your writing one day, that’s not always realistic—and for some, it’s not even the goal. Personally, I’ve always had this romantic notion of hopping from writing residency to residency, discovering new places…
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5 Ways to Be More Descriptive in Your Writing (Lessons from a Wine Tour and More)
